New tumblr: shadetree-machanics.tumblr.com
Right, so this tumblr is pish. Decided to remake. I’ve already refollowed the few blogs I actually want on my dashboard. I won’t be using this one anymore.
hipshake- replied to your post: Know what I don’t understand? When something…
It’s a coping mechanism, isn’t it. And a pretty poor one at that.
Extremely poor. It creates an illusion that there wasn’t really a problem in the first place. How can anyone overcome a problem if they convince themselves that the problem was just a “oops! Ctrl+Z” in the making of their ~destiny~.
Know what I don’t understand? When something shitty happens, one of the first things people say (including myself on occasion) is “Oh, everything happens for a reason!”. It’s such a ridiculous thing to say, really, isn’t it? Pretending that there’s some greater plan for a person in life, some already planned fate or destiny, really is a terrible way to justify something shite has happened to you.
